A realistic digital detox weekend

A realistic digital detox weekend is not about throwing your phone in a drawer for 48 hours. It is about switching off the parts that pull you in without being asked, such as social media, news, email and notifications, while keeping the useful parts like calls, maps and music. Plan what to do instead, and the weekend feels like a break rather than a test of willpower.

Here is a simple way to set it up, from Friday evening to Sunday night.

What to switch off, and what to keep

The rule of thumb: keep tools you use on purpose, switch off anything that asks for your attention on its own.

Friday evening: set it up

1. Tell the few people who need to know. "I'm offline this weekend, call if it's urgent" covers family and close friends.
2. Set an out-of-office on work email, even if you are not formally on call.
3. Log out of or delete social media apps for the weekend. You can reinstall them on Monday. Logging out adds just enough friction to break the automatic tap.
4. Turn on do-not-disturb, allowing calls from favourites only.
5. Move the phone's charger out of the bedroom, and dig out an alarm clock.
6. Plan Saturday morning. The first few hours are the hardest, so decide now what you will do.

What to do instead

Most people reach for their phone out of boredom or habit, not need. Have a list ready of things that fill the same gaps.

Get outside

• Take a long walk somewhere you have not been for a while, using a paper map if you fancy it.
• Visit a market, a garden or a museum.
• Cycle, swim or try a class you have been meaning to try.

If you want to keep walking after the weekend, our beginner walking plan builds a regular habit over four weeks.

Use your hands

• Cook something that takes a while: bread, a slow stew, a batch of jam.
• Do a repair or small job you have been putting off.
• Draw, garden, knit, build something, play an instrument.

Be with people

• Invite friends for a meal or a game.
• Call someone you have not spoken to in a while, properly, rather than messaging.
• Spend an afternoon with family without phones on the table.

Rest without a screen

• Read a book, ideally a paper one.
• Write: our journaling for beginners guide has five-minute prompts.
• Nap, if you need one; our guide on how to nap well covers timing.

What it may feel like

Expect the urge to check your phone often on Saturday morning, particularly in quiet moments: waiting for the kettle, sitting on the bus, first thing on waking. Many people notice by Saturday afternoon how often they reached for it. That noticing is one of the most useful things about the exercise.

By Sunday, many people report feeling calmer and having more time than they expected, though experiences vary.

Sunday night: decide what to keep

Before switching everything back on, think about what you missed and what you did not.

• Reinstall apps slowly. Maybe some do not need to come back to your phone at all.
• Keep notifications off for anything that is not a person contacting you directly.
• Choose one habit to keep, such as no phone in the bedroom or no phone at meals.
• Make your evenings calmer. Our evening wind-down routine starts with putting the phone away an hour before bed.

Questions people ask

Do I need to switch my phone off completely?

No. For most people, a partial detox that removes the attention-grabbing apps is more realistic and still makes a noticeable difference.

What if I need my phone for work?

Pick a smaller window: one evening, or Saturday only. You can also schedule two short check-ins, such as midday and evening, rather than being reachable all the time.

Is screen time bad for you?

It depends on what you are doing and how it affects you. Research suggests that heavy, passive use of social media may be linked to poorer mood and sleep for some people, while chatting with friends or learning something can be positive.

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